I have been struggling with a friend of mine over the weekend. She's just as damaged as I am if not even more so. She does this thing where she pushes me away so she can't hurt me but in this process it hurts me so is she right? I personally don't believe so but she does.
I've had enough of it, I'm physically, mentally and emotionally exhausted from our roller-coaster friendship. I love her immensely but I don't think I can continue to watch her self-destruct in front of my eyes (she even told me not to watch....). I think its about time I stop enabling her self-destructive behaviour so I want to talk to her mom about because I'm really worried she'll do something stupid again. So my question is Am I Right?
This has gone on for too long, she won't listen to me or her only other close friend what am I supposed to do? Just watch/don't watch her take her life? I'm in over my head and I need help, is it wrong for me to enlist the help of her mom? Am I doing the right thing? Am I Right?.........
yes. definately. Imagine how you would feel if she did something terrible that she can't take back, and you could have stopped it. In my opinion, yous should definately tell somebody. Best of luck.
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Thank you so much for your response it really helped.
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